They hold hands to heighten the intensity of life. The real happiness lies in touching each other` Many such things are said while considering the relationship between a man and woman. But, trying to satisfy the lust for sexual pleasures should never be the ultimate aim of married life. If we uplift ourselves too much in an attempt to touch the sky then we are sure to fall down. Many people do achieve this, but when one is beginning his/her married life then this achievement is almost impossible. It is after spending 1020 years together in a married life, after going through moments of happiness and sorrow together, over and over again we experience the serenity of the night. Undemanding love is like the waxing moon and not like the wanning moon.